Was driving normally and usually ill be up in gear 4 by 50km's ... was driving today with mum to uncles and ... the mivec nearly kicked in! i thought i was in tip mode and forgot to change

I havent tried gear 3, since theres no roads safe enough to do it. But yeah encountered weird problem just today ...
My gears change very strangely in auto. eg, 1 to 2 anywhere between 3k - 7k rpm and 2 to 3 would be 3k - 6k rpms. Long ago about 2k-3k rpm and it would change gears.
Im sure this isnt normal ... what could be the answers to this? (i filled up unleaded and decided to try unleaded premium 98, the car was just a tad under half full and i filled up 20bucks of premium unleaded, maybe the mix of petrol? (i dont think soo though)
HELP PLOX,
Thanks guys

Edit : At what RPMS do YOU tip drivers whos driving in auto change gears at?