
The FTO will definitely tick all of your boxes; once you have one you realise there isn't really anything else that compares apart from a Series 6+ RX7 which really isn't an option because of reliability issues.
FTO good points are that it is nimble, quick (to a point) and very good looking, etc etc.
Before getting one though ensure you read the various "what to look for" threads here with regards to what can be wrong with a second hand FTO. Simple things though like Power Window problems, AC not working and central locking not working are cheap easy fixes and you can use them to drive the price down.
Things like roof rust are a real money drainer and not worth the hassle if you can't at least do *some* of the work yourself (or have people who can help you for free/cheaply).
Best place to look for one is on this very site; check out the For Sale section. Any here will be well known and everyone is pretty trustworthy (apart from that damn Bennoz, he is a shifty bastard who likes to pull all sorts of shenanigans).
Anyways, WTTC, stick around (if they don't scare you away first)...