ANBU,
time is the best medicine,
give it a month and you will realise that what you thought bad wasnt that bad. And make sure you learn something out of this incident/experience.
When I found my car vandalised, I was so angry/sad that I couldnt think straight for a whole week. Believe me during that one week, every single night I saw the same nightmare in my dreams, that somebody was scrathing my car facing his back to me, and I was far away. Somehow, I couldnt get there on time, neither, I couldnt see his face in my dream. It was always the same end that I found my car vandalised. Then I woke up.
The moral of the story is that, after this incident I had to look for lessons that I can learn out of it.
I realised,
- There is a huge, daily stress on people which make them do crazy things. We all heard on the news that people had a fight over a parking spot, and they phsicaly heart each other. I am sure there were parking spots becoming available while they were fighting. So, moral is that daily stress can lead people to do crazy things and this might heart you if you are not quick enough to understand the danger you are in and try to get away from it. Life is supposed to be fun mostly.
- You cant get an insurance when you need it, it has to be prepurchased. Overall, this made me realise about the exit strategies of any actions in life, especially in investment. It looked to me that I invested some money in a car without any exit strategy, no insurance. and unfortunately sh*t happened, and now I have to pay. It more sounded like I was a gambler and trying my luck.
There are few other lessons, i can go forever.
Time went passed and part of me healed. I am still angry and upset about it. However, I stick with my learnings and when I go to shopping centers I make my girlfriend drive.
