yes i understand your point completely
notice how i started with "legalities aside"
im just looking at the practical point of it, whether it really will blind oncoming traffic, and whether you really will be pulled over by the police, and the chances of insurance company refusing to payout coz they somehow found out you had a HID kit fitted and knew it was not standard and dont believe that it was an option on the FTO

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Just car paid me out over $26000 for my first FTO and i told them about my 17" wheels, body kit, and cd player afterwards and were happy to add it to the policy... perhaps if the accident was my fault they would have reacted differently? who knows...
in the end it's the individual's decision on whether they want to install the kit knowing all the implications...
I had a friend with the GPvR who had the OEM HID from Mitsubishi, and From the outside at least the assemble looked identical, i wouldnt be surprised if it was exactly the same with just the xenon bulb replacing the halogen one. im talking about just the light housing
as the for high beams, that should be no problem as 9005 bulb is carried by the manufacturer
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