Thank you all!
Got a much better idea of what's wrong now.
Forum and members are helping a ton, thanks
Notable issues known so far:
1> All 4 engine mounts need replacement ASAP
2> Starter motor issue, seems to start on N, not P... so its probably dying.(not too sure about the start on N part.. need to try a few more times over the week.)
3> oil and water leaks, need to be isolated, once engine is cleaned of all current residues.
4> 1 wheel slightly damaged, but mght upgrade to 17inchers... not important yet, but might be the most expensive.
5> Voltmeter fluctuates, when indicators are on, etc, but battery seems charged, so might not be an alternator issue. Will have to do the disconnect negative terminal on battery while car is running test.
6> Roof rust... hmm.. will have to wait for now.
7> A lot of wind noise, while at 90-100km... not too sure why. Windows are closed fully.