FTO AUSTRALIA

I need to rant off my current problems, I have no-one to talk to here in SA so I am going to rant on the forum.

My misses, Sue, has been told she may have a possable rare 1:1000 cancer in her woman parts by a local doctor. Sue is currently going through a lot of tests to work out her problem.
She has had constant periods for over 2 months, has no energy, is always tired and is starting to get constant head aches.
Blood tests have come up with nothing other than her blood count is 1/3 lower than normal, because she has been expelling so much blood.
She still has to have an ultrasound and a visit to a gynecologist. She may have to have a biopsy too.
The doctor has started her on some meds to try to get her blood count back up. She is a type 1 diabetic too which doesn't help the situation.
We hope it's something other than cancer, but it's not looking promising at the moment.

Sue is talking about life insurance and is very distressed. She is telling me to buy a house even if she is not here....This kind of talking is very hard to deal with.

So, we are trying to put it at the back of our minds and just carry on as per usual but it's not easy.

Moar ranting...
I am not getting any. *tries a joke to lighten the mood*
I can't seem to be able to buy anything for my FTO that I want.
I seem to be pissing poeple off without even trying to or wanting to.

Hopefully it's just something that will pass and my rant is then uncalled for.
Anyway...I have said what I need to.

My sympathies man. Promise as soon as I won't kill myself from balding tyres I'll make a trip up to you folks!

But...
On a good note, not that it really matters at the moment...

We are debt free and have $1000's of dollars in the bank for the first time in our lives.
We should be able to buy our first home early next year.
I have been nominated for apprentice of the year again, which means I have to put together another portfolio.

Just our luck though, things were looking good for once and now we have to deal with.....

BTW, don't tell Sue I have posted this thread as she doesn't know I have been ranting here.

bjk wrote:My sympathies man. Promise as soon as I won't kill myself from balding tyres I'll make a trip up to you folks!

Thanks bjk.
I still want to come down to Adelaide and meet you all one day.




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Wow, sorry to hear mate
I hope it all turns out fine though.

Technikhaus wrote:Wow, sorry to hear mate
I hope it all turns out fine though.

I'll +1 to that
Hopefully the doctor is a dick for even mentioning the "C" word.

Thanks

PHIL069 wrote:I am not getting any.

Don't worry, me neither.

(On an unrelated note, PM sent)

That sucks man. Wishing you and your family all the best and hopefully it all works out.

Be positive and every thing will get better brother Maybe get couple of different doctor's opinion? Some of the doctors thrive on scare tactics without being 100 percent sure through diagnosis.

Feel free to spill your mind here, we are always here to listen

Oh Phil, thats not good mate. I hope that things turn around for you. Life shouldnt be as hard as what you have had to endure

Holy sh*t mate thats really suck eggs it sucks that the good people in life have to deal with so many hard problems while the scumbags of life have it easy and do what ever they want
As everyone has said speak your mind this fourm is more like a family then a club hope all goes well ever need anything just holla

Hey mate,

it sounds like your misses has a similar condition to my cousin. She was in and out of doctors for around 18months trying to find the problem, and has had to have a full hysterectomy to get rid of it. That's not a problem as she's already had children, but the pain and suffering she had to go through first was disgusting.

I really hope it gets better for you and her, as I'd never wish that kind of pain and frustration upon my worst enemies.

Chin up

Thanks guys, it's really nice that you are all giving us your wishes.

fraz91 wrote:Hey mate,

it sounds like your misses has a similar condition to my cousin. She was in and out of doctors for around 18months trying to find the problem, and has had to have a full hysterectomy to get rid of it. That's not a problem as she's already had children, but the pain and suffering she had to go through first was disgusting.

I really hope it gets better for you and her, as I'd never wish that kind of pain and frustration upon my worst enemies.

Chin up

That doesn't sound like a very pleasant journey, but I guess even that would be better than no cure.


We went out to the Crystal Brook Show today, it was good to see my family on a happy day out. Steven got to ride the quad bikes and came away from the experience with the biggest smile on his face. It did wear Sue out though, she is in bed resting now.

This is not good to hear Phil, I hope it turns out to be a false alarm and something easily treated.

Def get additional opinions though. And do your own research and try to find someone that specialises for a better diagnosis.

Damn, I'm so sorry to hear Phil. You're not alone though mate, I'm sure the entire club is here for you. I hope things turn around and wish you and her the best

Thanks guys.
The diagnosis isn't complete yet, still have to have an ultrasound and see the gynecologist.
The idea of worst case has just been put into our heads and that just makes it harder to deal with at the moment.
Fingers crossed that it is a false alarm, my shout for a case of champagne at the bonfire if it is, your shout for a case of Jim if it isn't. Deal?

PHIL069 wrote:Fingers crossed that it is a false alarm, my shout for a case of champagne at the bonfire if it is, your shout for a case of Jim if it isn't. Deal?

My shout on Jim Beam and champers regardless!

An update...

Good news...
98% no cancer

Bad news...
Sue has to go for an operation. She has to get her inner girl parts microwaved and destroyed, one step short of having them removed. She has to get her tubes clipped, with Titanium , as it is too dangerous to fall pregnant after the procedure. They will also test for cancer after the procedure.
Operation will be in the next 4 weeks sometime. She has to have a general anestetic, ie put to sleep for the operation.

Worse news...
I still won't get any for months

Better news...
When I do get some again she can't fall pregnant.

lol, good news mate, and you're a funny c**t lol

Hope all goes well with the op.

That's good to hear Phil. Hope it all goes well and Sue has a quick recovery.

holy f**k! thats funny and sad, you better not show her this post